First of all, you are incredible. You are strong. You are an amazing mother!
Second, planning a baby shower is probably the last thing you want to think about at the moment. Your sweet friends throwing the shower are asking you a million and one questions about what you envision. You don't know. You don't care. You're just so tired. Before you go Mama Bear on them, don't worry--we already planned the event for you with adorable and unique ideas!